The question is, Are you Happy in your relationship?

Being in a relationship doesn’t guarantee happiness.
At first, you’ll be optimistic. But as time goes by, your partner’s personality starts to shout out in your face. This is because he/she is comfortable having you around, and doesn’t have the fear of being judged.

You will say it’s good to have such a kind of person who won’t judge you no matter what. The person who will accept you the way you are. The person who will cherish your flaws. And you will put all your trust in that same person. But is that the case?-Well, am afraid that you are right. That’s what’s happening nowadays.


Some people who thought that having you in their lives was the best decision they’ve ever made will now start retracting slowly from you.
And soon you’ll be dating yourself. Isn’t that a shame?

No one is to be trusted. Trust God and yourself. Committing to your partner is a nuisance-Just live your life.
After all, everything has an end, as you are born and someday you will depart from this world.

Hard to get

People who have been single for too long are the hardest to love :

Because they have become so used to being single, independent and self sufficient that it takes something extraordinary to convince them that they need you in their life.

Just shoot your shot

You are holding back your feelings for that girl because she is a people pleaser. Your friends call her, ‘mali ya umma‘ because she belongs to the streets. But what does your heart tell you? It’s pumping more blood that before when you see her.

Remember there was this character in the bible who had a wife who was a prostitute but he didn’t leave her. He accepted her the way she was. And that was love. So don’t be foolish. Shoot your shot. Embrace that love you have.

Thank God you were not aborted, ju weeeuh

This is a story about a girl. A freshman in the University. She was pregnant, and she wanted to abort the child.

After many debates on her mind she decided to consult the school authorities who advised her not to kill the child, because she never knows, that child may help her in future.

She took the advice positively and went on to deliver the child in her mother’s home. She was happy afterwards.

So, do you think you might have read this story if you were aborted? Thank God your parents didn’t use protection or conceived you by accident. Say No to abortion. If you are not ready to raise a child, just abstain from careless sex.

I need a ‘Mumama’

I don’t know about you, but my female friends are dating rich guys. In many of the conversations that we’ve had, I heard them saying that their boyfriends are from well of families, and they don’t struggle with getting cash. 

Well, the way I see their relationships, they’re just perfect. I saw there was not a  problem with traveling to places, communication, going on dates or picnics, meet-ups; I mean, just PERFECT.

I love the way their partners treat them. It’s like a queen treatment. They always get everything they deserved. 

That’s why I encourage you to find boyfriends who have money. 

I love you

The way people be posting their friends on their WhatsApp or Instagram feeds is freakingly crazy. 

The way they show love-I don’t know if it’s true or fake love, and they make you believe that they care for you, yet you only know the struggles you’ve been through, but you’re there excited that you were posted and it’s your special day. I don’t know what you are happy about when you are posted. Please tell me.

 Moreover, they write captions that they can never say in person. And you believe their lies?

 Please Stop! Just Be real!

Only if you had wifi

Coming to school with OB we brought up an argument: “If I on-campus student I would learn many things over WiFi”. He seemed to disagree with me.

In some ways, I think he is right because on the first day I’ll watch everything that I can, but on the second and third days, I will be exhausted from using WiFi. 

So, if you had WiFi in your place, would you tire of using it?